You can also plan a picnic for you to share. It’ll give you
time to enjoy each other’s company, can be healthier than restaurants, and will be much cheaper.
How long has it been since your family had a family portrait done? If it’s been a long time, you may want to find a relatively recent photo with everyone in it. Take the photo or negative to have it enlarged. You can also find a nice frame for the enlargement and it doesn’t have to drain your pocketbook.
Think about the things that your mom likes but
rarely splurges on. Maybe she has a favorite magazine she used to read but hasn’t lately. She may enjoy good quality chocolate but feels it’s an indulgence she can’t afford. Splurge a little and buy that thing for her for her special day. You may find that she appreciates this gift more than any other you’ve given because it shows that you listened to her, recognized her self-denial, and then gave her what she wanted.
Cut flowers can be expensive and they die within a
week or so of receiving them. You can find a nice flowering perennial that can be planted in her yard and enjoyed for years to come. Why not make a certificate offering to plant the perennial at a time that suits her?
Consider finding old family photos and putting them into a memory scrapbook for her. Yes, it’ll take some time to complete this task, but she’ll love having access to family photos she hasn’t seen in years.
Remember, you don’t need
an expensive gift for it to be meaningful. It’s reallythe thought that counts much more than the amount of money you spent for the day.
Let’s move on to the kids. Here are a few ideas for things they can make and give mom or grandma: